Eight years ago today my mother passed away. Curiously, it was my father's birthday. (He had passed 28 years prior, also in June) All of which gave me pause for thought.
I was about to delve into their relationship but stopped myself. Suffice to say, they each handled their own lives, and end of life processes, quite differently. Dad was fatalistic and passive. Mom tried to live her best life to the very end.
And yet, their bond was more significant than I had previously realized. Call it coincidence, but my mother's passing on dad's birthday forced me to reassess the significance of their relationship. I no longer see it in terms of my own experience of it but realized that, for them, it was truly a bond of the soul.
A few days ago I stumbled upon this old traditional sung by a trio of women who called themselves the Wailin' Jennys. The song is called "Long Time Traveller." It was apparently composed in 1856 by Edmund Dumas, using lyrics originally written in 1810. It has that world-weary, vale of tears sensibility which I don't share, but there's something in the melody that appeals to me, so I'm posting it today in honor of both my mother's and father's passing.